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The power of ‘no’
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Today’s Tonic: The Power of ‘No’
“People think focusing is about saying ‘yes’ to the thing you've got to focus on. But that's not what it means at all. It means saying ‘no’ to the hundred other good ideas that there are.”
– Steve Jobs
A lot of people will tell you to say ‘yes’ to things in life.
“Don’t be such a party pooper…”
“Come on, it’ll be fun…”
“It’s a great opportunity for you…”
Saying ‘yes’ is seen as being open to life, being spontaneous and having a happy-go-lucky attitude.
Sometimes you say ‘yes’ just because you think it will get you accepted.
But there’s huge power in saying ‘no’.
Here are 5 reasons why:
Setting Boundaries
Saying ‘no’ lets you prioritize your energy on what truly matters to you. Saying ‘no’ to opportunities often means saying ‘no’ to burnout.
Maintaining Focus
By saying ‘no’ to opportunities that don't align with your goals, you are maintaining focus on what's important. Saying ‘no’ means saying ‘yes’ to the thing you want to focus on.
Preserving Energy
Constantly saying ‘yes’ to every request can be exhausting. Saying ‘no’ allows you to conserve your energy for things that are meaningful and fulfilling.
Avoiding Regret
Saying ‘no’ can help you avoid commitments that you’ll later regret. Saying ‘no’ is about trusting intuition, rather than succumbing to short-term pressures or expectations.
Being Authentic
Being able to say ‘no’ reinforces your personal boundaries and builds self-respect. Saying ‘no’ is about showing people the real you, rather than faking the kind of person you think you should be.
So try it out.
Say ‘no’ to something today 🙂