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Sunday Insider - Edition #67
Reverse bucket list, serendipity, and change
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Here’s some stuff that inspired us this last week.
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Listen: How to Be Happy, Reverse Bucket Lists, The Four False Idols, and More — Arthur C. Brooks
Arthur C. Brooks (@arthurbrooks) is the Parker Gilbert Montgomery Professor of the Practice of Public and Nonprofit Leadership at the Harvard Kennedy School and Professor of Management Practice at the Harvard Business School, where he teaches courses on leadership and happiness. He is also a columnist at The Atlantic, where he writes the popular “How to Build a Life” column.
Read: Milan Kundera on the Power of Coincidences and the Musicality of How Chance Composes Our Lives
Whatever their cause, in such moments of dazzling coincidence we feel that beyond the seeming reality of this world lies another, sending us signs, hinting at the possibility of the impossible.
It is important, Kundera argues, to be awake to serendipity — for letting coincidences go unnoticed deprives our lives of “a dimension of beauty.”
Watch: Change Your Life – One Tiny Step at a Time
If you are like most people, there is a gap between the person you are and the person you wish to be. There are little things you think you should do and big things you ought to achieve. From working out regularly, eating healthy, learning a language, working on your novel, reading more or simply actually doing your hobby instead of browsing reddit.
But it can seem that to achieve your goals, you have to become a different person. Someone who is consistent, puts in more effort, has discipline and willpower. Maybe you have tried your hardest to be like that. And it worked! For a while. Until you find yourself slipping back into your old ways. But change is actually hard. But as with most things in life, understanding why makes things easier.
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