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Friday Focus: The Art of Saying No
Protect your energy by learning when to say no with grace and intention.
Seth Thomas
April 04, 2025
You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage—pleasantly, smilingly, unapologetically—to say no to other things.
Saying “no” isn’t selfish—it’s strategic. Every “yes” you give to something unaligned with your goals takes time and energy away from what truly matters to you. Boundaries are not walls; they’re bridges that connect you more deeply with your purpose by filtering out distractions.
Practice saying “no” with kindness but firmness when requests conflict with your priorities. Protecting your energy allows you to show up fully for what matters most—your passions, relationships, and well-being.
Boundaries aren’t barriers—they’re acts of self-respect and focus.
Today’s Challenge
Say “no” to one request or task today that doesn’t align with your priorities.
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